Saturday, November 28, 2009

wat actually matters...

everyone of us is ultimately looking for love in some form.. everyone of us.. love comes in so many packages....some of us yearn for a mom's love.. some of us for a friend's.. while there are some others who find love in a sister or a partner..

Then why are we so boggled up when we hear the word 'love'.. its nothing to be scared of.. its somethin that helps you smile.. helps you cry your sorrows out.. love never dies.. it stays forever.. you can never hate somebody you love.. still when somebody you love hurts you or breaks your heart you try .. you try so hard to hate them.. but u never can.. u might move on forget the hurt but never the love.. love stays forever..

when a person moves on its not that there is no love... there are other things in any relationship other than love... the understanding, comfortability and trust combined together weighes more than love actually.. one might love somebody so much that they can keep trying to make things work.. but things will only work if the other factors are intact..

so what is it that matters...so does that mean if i understand and am comfortable with someone.. its enough to make a relationship work.. yes.. this is the truth..it is enough.. love follows wherever there is a perfect combination of comfortability and trust.. well thats the only way indian marriages work..

thats the only reason why so many relationships don't.. !!

as one moves on in life. they find a few people who make them feel special.. who make you think you are the only person who mattered to them.. you are the priority in their life.. then situations come up n you drift apart.. and how does this situation arise .. 'misunderstandings'.. no worries soon you'll find another person who makes you feel the same way this time jus remember not to let the 'misunderstanding' come in the way.. !!

love is an inspiration and a stimulus.. it gives you hope.. it gives you the courage to keep trying.. it gives you te boost when you are down.. gives you the reason to smile even while you are cryin... so let's not be scared of feelings.. lets not be scared of the intensity of the feelings.. someday you might be surprised to find the power they hold.. they can get you through nythin..!! when i say anything i mean anything...!!

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