All th world is a stage and all men and women are mere actors....

somebody once told me "Meeting and Parting away are happenings in a life.." true.. very true... during this journey of life,we meet a lot of people.. some walk with us for a few steps and walk away.. some stay with us for a long time.. fall n rise with us.. all these people have a part to play in our life.. add to our experiences..make us a better person than what we were.. when their part in our life comes to an end... they leave.. the real challenge lies in acceptance.. letting people go and not cling on them.. you ll survive.. you were fine before they entered your life n you ll be okay even if they leave.. but yes a million different feelings and emotions may find their way into you.. you need to feel each one of these emotions for you to feel better.. pain.. love.. hurt.. regret.. anger..happiness n so on.. feeling each of these emotions is important to let them leave you.. the more we run away from this the more intense they become n more difficult to deal with.. once u feel them ..time n again.. pain unbearable.. pass the test of time.. these emotions become a part of you.. make you a stronger person than what you are.. gives you strength you had never thought you had to face a lot of things for times to come.. the emotions might hurt initially.. later the pain ll subside all u ll hv is peace lefe.. peace with urself.. u ll b able to forgive urself n also others..n smile.. smile from heart.. so lets make peace with ourselves..n let people go.. so it goes.. if you let a person walk out of your life n te person does nt return the person was never yours..!! so we ve no right on wat is not ours.. so let go..if they come back accept them. .. stay happy always.. if not move on.. life s a long journey.. you still have a lot of people to meet.. to learn from you n to help you learn.. !! so live on!! learn to let go!!! stay happy always.. keep smiling..

tiptoed into new life...

i m sneaking into my new life.. tiptoed.. walkin on my toes to be sure i don wake up things of the past.. create unrest and bring them back into life.. things i have let go.. things i ve moved on from... thoughts that don ve a face as yet.. i m not letting go of the lessons i learnt from it.. my experiences make me what i am today.. i m jus letting the hate the grudge the pain the confusion the stress all that s dark subside.. i m jus lettin them die.. jus have a sense of peace n valuable lessons learnt from them.. my past.. my fears.. are waiting for me to slip into the trap they have woven for me. from which i can never come out.. after which i ve to live with them day after day.. month after month.. year after year.. i won let the memories of the past and the pain n hurt trap me.. i ll live with them but not under their conditions under mine..!! i had taken decisions n i hv to live with their consequences.. but i won let fear n pain rule me.. i am a happy soul.. smiling and spreadin smiles!! i won let the nightmares of the past ruin the day for me..!! its gone n over..!! its time i set things aside n move on..!! i found the right things but at the wrong time..!! clearly i ve a whole life in front of me.. i can still steer the ship of my life to safety n prosperity..!! so i tiptoe into my new life afraid to wake the mysteries of the past.. ready to trap me with curiosity.. i tiptoe into my new life with lot of confidence n hope..!!

Never thought i would blog!!

i never thought i wud blog..!! i was asked to blog.. a few friends suggested it would do me good.. but i never wanted to.. i don know why.. it was in my head.. somethin to do with blogs.. i don know sometimes when u decide on something its difficult to come out of it.. its a struggle with yourself.. i had to come out of the shell i created myself.. break it n come out.. to blog..!! this is jus one instance.. there has been a million issues for which i ve created rules n conditions n stuff within myself that becomes a problem for me itself later.. why is it that i m not able to come out of this or reframe the boundaries of the shell?? why is it i m making my own life complicated?? i woke up in te morning with this thought in my head.. i would make mmy life worth living a hundred times n over.. i started off with things i din wanna move on from.. i din wanna let go.. i feared i would do jus fine without them.. i din wanna be fine i wanted to be miserable.. i wanted to blame myself for everythin.. i feared i would find i m strong.. its easier to be weak n run n hide behind people.. i broke all my stupid rules.. i have come to accept i have enough courage and srength to face things.. i don ve to be trapped in te past.. i can move on.. stay happy.. life gives everyone another chance.. this is my second chance.. i should nt be stupid enough to refuse this chance.. its worth a try.. agreed its a dark n cold night.. but there ll be a bright morning.. let me get in shape to enjoy the light..!! to live!! to smile!! to spread the smile!!